Realm is a very detailed game when it comes to interaction. You form bonds with everyone. Whether you’re a genuine person, an asshole, flirtatious, or any mix of personality, you get to know people on the game like friends and family. Kim (along with Nancy) was one of the people I met right off the bat when I started becoming more of a social character within the game. Although I knew Nancy first, Kim was always the elf that stood out whenever he walked into a room. Sometimes he dressed funny, but that was just my first impression.

I became friends with him right away. Lots of drama throughout the years, but thats normal for real life also. The drama of the game was also offline at times. In the end, things were all good. It’s just a game, but like I said, the interaction within the game is like having a virtual family. You develop a reality of trust with everyone. (most everyone lol)

Both Kim and Nancy had their share of online and offline problems. They stuck through it all. I’ve always supported both of them. Kim treated me like a friend. I can’t say that alot. I don’t have many friends in real life. I always treat people how I want to be treated back. I’ve been told I rub off the wrong way sometimes, but that was never a factor with Kim. He always knew and understood my intentions and how I felt about life. Same goes for Nancy. That’s why she and Kim are perfect for each other.

Nancy is a fighter. She’s had lots of turmoil in her life. Finally she met Kim, and all things were looking to settle down a bit. Even with the uphill and downhill turrns, they were a definate match for each other. Things seemed alright until Kim got sick a few weeks ago. I don’t have the exact story clear in my mind, but from what I know, I didn’t expect it to take him away.

I dont play Realm much anymore due to real life obligations. Even now, I do stay in touch with people I’ve met from there. To have Kim leave, hits me. It makes me think about my own life. Things can happen unexpectedly, to people you don’t even expect it to happen to. I don’t really show how much I care sometimes, but anyone who respects me for who I am…. is a friend of mine.

Thanks for being my friend man. Even if I really only got to meet you as the funny looking elf that lived in Texas and Minnesota, you’re always cool in my book.”